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Does anyone have biblical advice on divorce after infidelity.?.....What about if you have kids?
I'm a Christian man with a wive who has had several affairs more that 4 . After separating for about 2 months, she says that she misses me and our child and she says that she has changed and wants to start going to church. In the process of our separation, I met a really nice young lady who is a Christian . I stopped talking to my friend when she said that she was willing to work things out. I really need advice. I have probably lost a good friend in all of this, but I had to do what was best for the child..............HELP

Relationship advice...do i stay or go? possible infidelity.broken trust for sure !?
here are the details. first of all..i am a decent looking, confident and pregnant woman in a relationship with a somewhat younger guy.. on our sons b day, i found out that he hit on my friend like a niece to me. he asked her " So when you gonna let me hit that? and my sister overheard. they told me the next morning..they didnt want to ruin the party. the next morning my other girl friend called and realized i was upset..so i told her what happened, she then proceeded to tell me that when they had dinner one night a week before i trust her and she asked first to make sure iwas ok with it after they came back hom, she carried my 2 year old into the house and laid him on the bed cuz he was sleeping..my bf tried to lay on top of her .. she told him to get off..asked him why he would disrepect her and me? she didnt want to tell me until she heard it happened with my niece. this was 6 weeks ago and i am now 37 weeks pregnant with our 2nd. due any time more issues ..mind you, being pregnant, i dont feel much for being sexual at all. i have like 0 interest in it. I have asked my bf to educate himself and find out that what i am saying is true..its not about him..its my hormones..i just have no interest in sex. but he takes it personal. so he pressures me daily for sex.. and now i resent him for that. it makes me hate sex more. when he pressures me and i say no..he then proceeds to get angry he says disappointed with me and gives me attitude.. for example, yesterday, he said i had to accept him as he is , with attitude and all or i can tell him to leave it seems like he is doing everything in his power to force me to kick him out..like he doesnt have the courage to tell me he wants out. he is building this brick wall that is getting higher and higher to the point that we wont be able to get over this..i am now seriously considering having my baby by myself..without him in the room..i dont feel emotionally connected to him right now ..he is to make my feeling for him non existent. we have been together for 3 1 2 years now and its doesnt seem to get any better. i feel his priority is SEX... nothing else seems to matter to him. i work 10 hours, come home and have to feed the animals, clean the house, do the dishes, laundry, take care of baby, water grass etc while ithe only thing he does is cook .. i clean up after. and i am gonna have this baby anytime i know i should probably get out...my family says that i am not the happy person i used to be...i just tolerate it all. i wanted to try and keep the family together for the sake of the kids .. but maybe that isnt the best idea anymore..

I need some advice about infidelity?
well check this, my uncle has been married 4 17yrs, and his wife is a crazy b i t c h she's always fighting with him, argueing, nagging, and jealous as hell. he's 42yrs old. he called me today upset and crying telling me that he is fed up and that he was dating another woman for about a month. the other woman is married. my uncle has a daughter that is 16yrz old. his daughter does not respect him at all cuz her mom brainwashes her saying that my uncle is no good. my uncle wants to leave his wife cuz he's fed up. the relationship with that other woman is over. the woman told him that she couldn't deal with him being married. my uncle asked me 4 advise. and i really don't want to get into it, but when i heard his tone of voice i felt real bad. i was brought up that infidelity is a sin and it is sumthing that shouldn't be done. like i said he's 42yrz i'm only 24. what can i tell him???his wife is 51 yrz old. she is a very jealous woman insecure of herself she and his daughter tag team on my uncle and make his life so miserable. my uncle has never cheated to my knowledge. the woman he was dating was just only dating, he told me that he never did anything sexual with her.he told me not to tell anyone about the matter, but when he called my house this morning, my mom heard the conversation, my mom is older than him. i told him that i think that he should talk to my mom about the matter as she is his older sister. my uncle does not trust anyone in the family only me. my uncle and i share a great bond with each other. he is my father figure. but he stated that he is coming over here after work today to talk to me about this more in detail...

I could use some advice on dealing with a spouse's past infidelity?
Bear with me, as this is the first time I've ever disclosed this to anyone. About 15 years ago, when my wife and I were living together, she had an affair with my best friend. I caught her in several lies, and when confronted with evidence, she finally confessed. I was madly in love with her, and decided to stay with her and try to work it out. At the time, she claimed it never progressed beyond kissing and talking. I wanted to believe her.We got married 2 years later. I asked about what went on before we got married, and she stuck with the story. About a year after the wedding, she finally confessed that they had been intimate sexually.I am still deeply in love with her, and I truly believe she wouldn't cheat again. But almost every day, I still have thoughts about her being with him. I haven't and wouldn't cheat on her. I don't want revenge, I just want to try and forget the past. But it haunts me every day. How can I put this behind me? Some days it drives me to tears.She treats me wonderfully. I couldn't imagine anyone treating me better. I have brought this up to her, within the past 6 months, but it makes her uncomfortable, and at times she has snapped and told me I " throw it in her face" and that I've never forgiven her. So I haven't brought it up since.I know at this point it's my problem, and it's all in my head.We were both young. I was 22, she was 21. I've never sought counseling. This is the first time I've told anyone about this.

Relationship advice needed - what are the signs of infidelity?
Recently, my boyfriend of two and a half years asked me to get a number for him out of his phone. As I was getting the information for him, I stumbled upon names and numbers of women whom I had never heard him talking about in the past. These women were not in his call history but just in his contact list, which makes the situation sticky as I don't know if he's really cheating or not. I quickly asked him who these women are and why I hadn't heard of them and he seemed to have an explanation for each. By nature I am a jealous person but I was so shocked that he knew these women and didn't tell me about them. I was especially curious as to why he had these numbers in his phone since he claimed that most of them were friends of friends. He assured me that he has never cheated on me and never intends to and that he loves me but I'm not feeling too confident in his promises. I'm really stuck in a hard place as I love him and want to be with him but I'm not sure if he's cheating on me or being dishonest. It also really bothers me that he wasn't open about adding these women to his list of contacts when he met them. I need some advice and input I HATE asking friends their opinions because they are biased and tend to give bad advice. Thanks in advance.

I need your advice about infidelity?
I live with a man for 5 years now and have 1 daughter with him.Because of his job we move in another country very far from mine , and i made many sacrifices lost my job, my family, .. to follow himLast night he went out with his colleagues and i discover that they took room and paid girl. When i asked him about it, he did not deny but didn't say too muchI'm so shocked and want to leave him and go back to my country. Could I? If not what can i do to forget and forgive ?

What advice do you have for women who feel that their husband's infidelity was their fault.?

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